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| Who is this book for: This guide is for both men and women, of all ages, because Kim realizes that neither parent is a villain or a saint. "Both parents have their own unique issues and good personal traits." This book is for teens, young adults or adults who are living or have lived with parents that interacted badly. They need to understand that any animosity that is (or was) taking place between their parents is not their fault. "Don't assume your kids are alright, because they are not saying anything." Also, this book is for anyone who is interested in a real life drama. This book details her first marriage and subsequent divorce and how she found out her ex husband was cheating on her. The aftermath of the divorce is also covered. Kim said. "I don't sugar coat what happened to me or my reaction to it." This guide is for parents that are still together but are experiencing some problems. It also covers how moms and dads (who have gone their separate ways) still need to stay focused on their children and not on what broke them up or who's fault it is. Specifically she talks about how some women use their kids to get back at their ex because of their own pain. This book discusses how both parents need to alter their attitude and behavior to make their children's lives better, ultimately enhancing their own lives. "The parents gain so much too. When we help our children we help ourselves. When we work on ourselves they reap the benefit of that too." It does not matter how long you've been feuding. You can still turn things around: |
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| Overview Kim said: "I'm a mom who has been divorced and I realize it is hard to separate from your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, or significant other. Normally people are not thinking clearly during these trying times. Emotions and vengeance can take over your thoughts if you don't keep your mind on what is important. If you've been hard to deal with or you are just spiteful then this book will give you some insight into the harm you are causing." The title is: |
| How to Love Your Kids More than You Hate That Man Whether you have broken up with your ex or you are on the verge of a break up or you are just in need of a real life drama use this insightful tool. Use this book as a guide. It will tell you precise things to do and specific areas to avoid. Since you care about those precious children, get focused and get truthful. Pretending and looking the other way will not get this resolved. You can do this, you can. All it takes is one step. |
| Kim's book is also available online at the following websites: Amazon Barnes & Noble LuLu |
| Real Life Story: Someone confided in Kim that she had not seen her grandchildren or daughter for several years. She explained that her daughter was mad at the children's father and on one occasion several years ago when she was babysitting the kids she allowed them to call their father. She recalled how happy the children were after speaking with him. Well her daughter found out and cut her mother off from any communication with her or her grandchildren. A few months after reading this book she called her mother and apologized, she said she would start letting them see their dad also. She saw her grandchildren a few weeks later. God is good! Please don't think you've waited too long to turn things around. Change is just one decision away. |