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by Kim B. Miller

Who is this book for:

This guide is for both men and women, of all ages, because Kim realizes
that neither parent is a villain or a saint. "Both parents have their own
unique issues and good personal traits."

This book is for teens, young adults or adults who are living or have lived
with parents that interacted badly. They need to understand that any
animosity that is (or was) taking place between their parents is not their
fault. "Don't assume your kids are alright, because they are not saying
anything."

Also, this book is for anyone who is interested in a real life drama. This
book details her first marriage and subsequent divorce and how she found
out her ex husband was cheating on her. The aftermath of the divorce is
also covered. Kim said. "I don't sugar coat what happened to me or my
reaction to it."

This guide is for parents that are still together but are experiencing some
problems.

It also covers how moms and dads need to stay focused on their children
and not on what broke up their relationship or who's fault it is. Specifically
she talks about how some women use their kids to get back at their ex
because of their own pain.

This book discusses how both parents need to alter their attitude and
behavior to make their children's lives better, ultimately enhancing their
own lives. "The parents gain so much too. When we help our children we help
ourselves. When we work on ourselves they reap the benefit of that too."

It does not matter how long you've been feuding. You can still turn things around:

You have
your child's
future (their
whole
world) in
your hands.

		You can still show your kids that your separation is not their fault.
		How?

Don't put them in the middle of your arguments.

		Don't knock down one of your kids heroes. Who is that you ask? Mom
		or Dad.

Overview
Kim said: "I'm a mom who has been divorced and I realize it is hard.
None of this is easy."

How to Love Your Kids More than You Hate That Man

Whether you have broken up with your ex or you are on the verge of a break up or
you are just in need of a real life drama use this insightful tool.

Use this book as a guide. It will tell you precise things to do and specific areas to
avoid. Since you care about those precious children, get focused and get truthful.
Pretending and looking the other way will not get this resolved. You can do this,
you can. All it takes is one step.

One of The Real Life Stories:
Someone confided in Kim that she had not seen her grandchildren or
daughter for several years. She explained that her daughter was mad at the
children's father and on one occasion several years ago when she was
babysitting the kids she allowed them to call their father.

She recalled how happy the children were after speaking with him. Well her
daughter found out and cut her mother off from any communication with her
or her grandchildren. A few months after reading this book she called her
mother and apologized, she said she would start letting them see their dad
also. She saw her grandchildren a few weeks later.

Please don't think you've waited too long to turn things around. Change is
just one decision away.