by Kim B. Miller


Who is this book for:
This guide is for both men and women, of all ages, because Kim realizes
that neither parent is a villain or a saint. "Both parents have their own
unique issues and good personal traits."
This book is for teens or adults who have lived with parents that interacted
badly. They need to understand that any animosity that is (or was) taking
place between their parents is not their fault. "Don't assume your kids are
alright, because they are not saying anything. Make sure they know that it was
not their fault."
This guide is for relatives and friends of the children too. So many times
people forget that the extended family is affected. They are hurt because
they are caught in the middle. Some have been cut off from the kids too
even though they did not do anything wrong.
Also, this book is for anyone who is interested in a real life drama. This
book details her first marriage and subsequent divorce and how she found
out her ex husband was cheating on her. The aftermath of the divorce is
also covered. Kim said. "I don't sugar coat what happened to me or my
reaction to it."
It also covers how moms and dads need to stay focused on their children
and not on what broke up their relationship or who's fault it is.
This book details how both parents need to alter their attitude and
behavior to make their children's lives better, ultimately enhancing their
own lives. "The parents gain so much. When we help our children we help
ourselves. When we work on ourselves they reap the benefit of that too. We
need to heal the entire family."
"It does not matter how long you've been feuding. You can still turn
things around".
You have
your child's
future (their
whole
world) in
your hands.
How to Love Your Kids More than You Hate That Man
Whether you have broken up with your ex or you are a family member caught in the middle use this insightful tool.
Use this book as a guide. It will tell you precise things to do and specific areas to avoid. Since you care about those precious children, get focused and get truthful. You can do this, you can. All it takes is one step.
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One of The Real Life Stories:
Someone confided in Kim that she had not seen her grandchildren or daughter for several years. She explained that her daughter was mad at the children's father and on one occasion several years ago when she was babysitting the kids she allowed them to call their father.
She recalled how happy the children were after speaking with him. Well her daughter found out and she cut her mother off from any communication with her or her grandchildren. A few months after reading this book she called her mother and apologized, she said she would start letting them see their dad also. She saw her grandchildren a few weeks later.
Please don't think you've waited too long to turn things around. Change is just one decision away.
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More Than You Hate That Man
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